If you want to grow, don an attitude of humility and gratitude. When you submit yourself you everything life has to offer as one open to learn and accepting of choices, as one who is willing to weigh ideas and practice applying them, as one who is grateful for options and struggles because you see them as opportunities to better yourself you WILL grow. Don’t be afraid to get hurt because nothing new is ever born without pain. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes because this is how we remember not to make poor choices repeatedly. Don’t be afraid to fall because this is how we learn to get back up. No one ever laughed at a baby for trying to learn to walk. So, be thankful for what you have, while being optimistic that more is coming your way. Your efforts will be rewarded.